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Welcome to the Akashic musings podcast. My name is Laura Mazzotta and I will be your guide during the sacred experience. I'm an Akashic healer and teacher, and I've also been a therapist for almost 20 years. This podcast is your go to opportunity for all things healing, inspiration and Empowerment. I will be sharing potent wisdom from divine intelligence in the space of the Akashic Records. For more understanding of what the Akashic Records are, I encourage you to listen to episode one, or head over to my website at WWW dot, the Akashic therapist.com. I'm so grateful to have you here, receiving the powerful energetic shifts that radiate through these messages. Just by listening in, you're doing your part to raise the vibration of the planet, and fully realize our natural state of wellness and vitality. Without further ado, here's today's episode.
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Let's talk about sex de vie. Let's talk about you and me. Let's talk about all the good things and the bad things that may be. Let's talk about sex. Welcome back. I hope you enjoyed that little ditty. Anybody who knows me and is close to me in my world knows that I can pretty much break into song at any moment about any topic at all, which is quite the skill. I happen to celebrate it and absolutely love it. My husband isn't the biggest fan. But anyway, today we're talking about sex. FYI, if you didn't figure that one out yet. And this came forward because I saw a meme by Jake Woodard if you don't follow him on Instagram, he's somebody who really assist people with managing and balancing their masculine and feminine energy, and really recovering from any kind of wounded masculine wounds or wounded feminine. And he posted a meme on conscious sex. And the reason that I wanted to do an episode on this is because it really brought up a lot of thoughts. For me, I was really looking at this and having downloads come forward from so many different directions. And what that tells me is that it's a really powerful post, it's a really good post, and one that's going to encourage other people to also identify how this settles in their field. So what I really encourage is that as I read this meme to you, I'm going to give you a moment of pause just to kind of see how it settles in your field and how initially resonates because sex is a touchy topic for a lot of people it can feel really vulnerable and kind of touchy, right? So I am going to read this to you. And I want you to take a moment to just observe, do you have resistance coming up in your field do you have hesitation coming up or any kind of reaction emotionally or physically that comes forward when I read this to you okay, and then I'm gonna just going to bring forward some downloads, from the Akashic Records around this concept and allow it to just kind of sink in and then I would love to get your feedback on where you are with it. So this mean, the top of this meme is conscious sex. When most people have sex, they use another person's body to masturbate. It's a lustful attraction that is only fulfilling to the ego desires. This type of attraction loses its shine over time. If you want deep intimacy that continues to grow, there needs to be an integration of spiritual and emotional energy with the physical body. If there isn't a merging of hearts, it is merely two bodies rubbing against one another. So I'm going to give you a moment to just feel into this for a second
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Okay, so now that you've had a moment with this before I share everything that's coming forward from the records. I want to just allow you to hold on to that vibration at the same time that you stay open for whatever is going to come forward in this conversation. Okay, so this is interesting To me, because I put it up on my Instagram and Facebook stories to get other people's feedback as well. Because this is a topic that I think some people well, people have very strong opinions on. So one of the feedback pieces of feedback I got was I find it sad if this is most people's experiences, sex is a pathway to deeper intimacy and connection. So that's really interesting to me, because I get where this person is coming from, that it seems sad that people would just have sex and not have it be a pathway to deeper intimacy and connection. And I agree with that, if it is something that people are doing, because they feel insecure, or they feel empty inside, and they need to fulfill themselves, or they don't have a deep sense of deserving around themselves. Or if they feel like they need to prove themselves or make other people happy, or they're doing it out of obligation. That makes a lot of sense to me. Because obviously, we don't want to be perpetuating that pattern, we don't want to be feeding that pattern. And when we have casual sex with really, without thinking about it, without considering our intentions, and not really checking in with where we are with it and the purpose that it serves for us, then yeah, we can easily fall into patterns of I'm doing this to help me feel less empty. I'm doing this because I want to make the other person happy. Or I'm doing this because I feel I'm supposed to, right. So there can be a also this energy of, I want people to like me, I want to feel accepted, and I want to feel loved. And I know that this is one way it can actually be kind of manipulative, right? Even though it's not consciously, so a lot of the time, but it's the subconscious manipulation that exists around Oh, if I if I have sex with this person, then they will like me, they'll want me they will ask me out, they'll spend time with me more, or want me to be in their field reach out to me more often. Okay, which is really just, you know, what is manipulation. Manipulation is simply a way of modifying our environment in order to get our needs met. And we learn this because we have trouble having our needs met directly when we're younger, or in a past life or in our ancestral line that this is an issue. And so what happens is, we end up not being able to get our needs met when we express ourselves directly. So we try to go kind of through the back door or off the beaten path to be able to get our needs met, because we're feeling very desperate to have the Met. And we don't feel we have the resources within us to do that for ourselves. Okay. So that's where that makes sense for me. But I also don't want people to view it as sad if people are having casual sex, because some people make that choice consciously. Some people actually appreciate having times in their lives, where they're able to engage casually with people in a sexual manner. And I'm going to talk about that a little bit more deeply in a second. But
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I think that you just need to be really clear what your goals are, and what your intentions are. And so if your intentions are, you know what I've been in a relationship for a long time, I want to just have some fun, and allow myself to enjoy the sexual experience and cultivate my sexual energy and activate it, then go for it as long as you are continually checking in with your own energy field, clearing your own energy field, so that you're not picking up any sticky energy from somebody else's field, and being really conscious of the partners partners that you choose. Because the fact is, when we're talking about the energetic and spiritual world, sexual energy is is the most potent energy to be able to manifest our desires, the most potent energy to motivate ourselves, to create with and to, to really build that confidence and passion within ourselves and for ourselves and other people. So sexual energy is actually a very fantastic, powerful tool that we can tap into. So I know a large number of people who utilize sexual energy intentionally to be able to activate themselves towards their goals and desires. Now you could say, oh, okay, well, that means that they're using somebody else. Well, not if it's a mutual agreement, not if it's something that serves both parties. And so this is so interesting, because when you're looking at this concept of conscious sex and feeling like, oh, when most people have sex, they use another person's body to masturbate. I mean, I guess so. But I also know that we are meant on this earth to have collaborative experiences with and not with one another and to encourage one another to grow and expand and learn more intimately about each other and ourselves. So this is just another way of being able to collaborate and connect and maximize and amplify energy All right. So once again, just as you would not be friend, someone or choose to spend time or do business with someone whose energy field you're not a big fan of, and you don't feel is going to help you grow and expand, don't choose a sexual partner who is not going to help you grow and expand, whether that's casual, or whether it's something long term. Now, for the most part, a lot of people do desire to have deep intimacy that continues to grow with another person. And they find that that's very helpful for their foundation. So if that's your goal, then casual sex may not be the right choice for you. Right. But I think it's really important because there's a difference between masturbating and having sex with someone else having interactive sex with another human. Because the bottom line is you're sharing energy, you're exchanging energy, right. And so the sexual energy is still going to have impact if you're masturbating. But it's going to have even more if it's amplified between the fields of two people, just like if you meditate together, you pray together, right, the energy gets magnified. So the fact that that Jake says it's a lustful attraction that's only fulfilling to the ego desires, I don't necessarily agree with, because I do think that that can occur for people whose intentions are, I just want to get off. And that's more of an addictive quality, right? Like, I just want to get off or I just want to be able to experience this release. And I'm using the other person to do so rather than I have a very clear intention, passion, Mission motivation that I'm moving toward, that is in the highest good for all, not just for me, but in the highest good for all. And sexual energy is one of the tools that I am using in order to get there. And my partner is in agreement with this, and my partner has the same goals and desires. They don't have to but they may. Right. So I don't necessarily think it's a goal. But I think there's I actually know a lot of people, clients of mine in the past who have really felt self conscious about the fact that they want to use their culture of their sexual energy to cultivate teaching other people how to feel joyful, how to feel passionate in their own bodies, how to feel appreciative of their own bodies, how to feel sensual, and sexual without shame. And especially for people who have had sexual trauma, this is really helpful, it can actually be really, really helpful to work with sexual energy to be able to overcome that shame and heal and feel empowered in your sexuality. So um, so I don't think it's just a lustful attraction that's just fulfilling to the ego, I think it's something that exists in an energetic level that some people are naturally pulled towards, and honestly feel a little bit uncomfortable with, and they feel uncomfortable with it, because society has put out so much shame around sexuality, and so much shame around sexual energy. And so, you know, one of the things that Jake says here is this type of attraction loses its shine over time, this casual sexual experience.
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And so, you know, from my personal experience, just with working with clients, it typically is a short lived period of time, it's not long term that they want to engage in this sexual energy, using sexual energy in this way, and in casual sex, but some people really do believe in the free love concept, the concept of I'm going to allow my energy to guide me, and wherever my energy happens to guide me is where I go. And so if I choose to have sex with this person than I do, and this happens a lot in spiritual communities, where people are really mainly reserved to the people within their community that they exchange sexual experience with. And so there's that experience as well, where again, people are very intentional and conscious about it. But it's more of a free love mentality, which is, you know, we're all here to just kind of help each other experienced the greatest level of passion, ecstasy and joy in this life. And we're very conscious about the people that we interact with, right? So yes, if you want deep intimacy that continues to grow together, and you have a mutual path that you're working toward, whether it's sexually related or not, then yeah, you're going to want to seek out somebody that you have a sexual experience with, that is one that you can kind of build a foundation on foundation with, and then continue to grow from so that you have that really, really safe foundation to be able to explore even more. Okay, so I think that either way, whether you're talking about casual sex, or whether you're talking about this relationship that's going to continue to grow, etcetera. You want to make sure that you have a safe Foundation, especially if you've had any kind of history of trauma, because your nervous system is going to need and want to be grounded before you enter into this experience. And I also think you need to be very, very intuitively mind I did very consciously aware of yourself and your own patterns and that this isn't something that's just impulsive. Okay. So I do agree that when you merge with somebody that you've made a long term commitment to the level of ecstasy can continue to grow exponentially. For sure. This can also happen in casual experiences. But there's kind of this some, I guess, you could call it a stacking of energy on top of each other, so that the vortex just continues to get more and more powerful and intense. And it's not just, it's not just an energetic experience, right. It's also a heartspace experience. It's also a spiritual experience. It can also be a spiritual experience in casual sex, but the heart based experience, yes, that can exist. But it can definitely harness a greater level of depth and intimacy during through a long term relationship, partly because of that really, really secure and solid foundation. But also, just because of this, this stacking concept, right? That each time as you continue to grow together and learn more about each other and have a very conscious relationship, you're going to experience greater and greater levels of ecstasy, connection and co creation together. So thank you so much for listening to this. And I'm so grateful that the Akashic Records had an opportunity to process this information. And I appreciate you receiving this and staying open minded. And of course, as always, I'm happy to hear your thoughts. And if you want to connect for a 10 minute power of connection call, you can grab that on my website under the services tab. And we can connect and just get to know one another and identify what your goals are, how you want to get there. What's getting in the way, and I'm happy to guide you further and further on your journey. Have a wonderful day.
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Thank you for joining me for this episode of the Akashic musings Podcast. I'm so grateful you're taking the time to integrate healing at the deepest level. If you loved this episode, connect with me on Instagram at emerge healing & wellness or contact me through my website at WWW dot the Akashic therapist.com I'll see you next week on the next episode of the Akashic musings podcast. Bye for now and have a wonderful week.
